Work It Out
I chose to combine pink sunstone and lapis lazuli to assist with transmuting my pain through creative outlets. In other words, to bust through my creative block. I’ve experienced children gravitate towards me with this bracelet on, it also makes them super chatty.
PINK SUNSTONE- In Ancient Egypt, sunstone was used to represent Ra, Sun God and Creator. A powerful protection stone against evil forces, sunstone annihilates procrastination and assists in healing depression by restoring concentration and peace of mind.
Because it assists with self-worth, codependency, self-empowerment, self-nurturing, and connects you to your divine path in this lifetime, I used this stone to help me heal through heartache from past lovers, family betrayal, and my enumerable traumatic college experiences as a Black woman who graduated from a PWI.
Pink sunstone additionally removes energetic “hooks” from others as well as inhibitions, destroys the “captain-save-a-hoe” complex, transmutes feelings of failure into positivity, brings joy and rejuvenation, and highlights your soul’s path, restoring confidence in life. It’s definitely the stone to work with when you’re feeling at your lowest. This beautiful stone will change your life when used intentionally and leave you when it’s done. Ask me how I know.
Chakra: ROOT, SACRAL, SOLAR PLEXUS, cleanses and energizes ALL
Planet: SUN & VENUS
LAPIS LAZULI- as a very powerful stone with a high vibration, Lapis Lazuli reverses curses or diseases caused by not advocating for oneself. It also serves as a protection stone against psychic attack, returning all negative energy back to the sender. Lapis will help you take charge in your life, releasing repressed anger lingering in the THROAT chakra. As it harmonizes your mind, body, and soul, you’ll gain a deep inner-self knowledge, making it easier to express oneself creatively and in times of conflict. If you have trouble speaking up, this is the stone for you!
Chakra: THROAT, THIRD-EYE, CROWN
Number: 3
Planet: VENUS
Cleansing
Always cleanse your bracelets upon receiving them and continue to cleanse them daily. Crystals need cleansing after wearing or healing. There are a variety of ways to cleanse your crystals, try any of these suggestions and see what feels right for you.
Note: Citrine, Kyanite, and Azeztulite never need cleansing
Smudge: passing crystals through smoke from incense, herbs, or resin
Ex. copal, frankincense, cedar
Candlelight: passing crystals through candlelight
Sound Bath: using a sound bowl for 15-20 minutes
Water: holding crystals under tap water or immersing them in saltwater
Note: Crystals 5 and below the Mohs hardness scale are typically unsafe in water. A majority of them end in “ite,” such as: Pyrite, Selenite, and Labradorite. Opal and Turquoise, however, are also unsafe in water.
Visualization: Simply visualize your crystal(s) surrounded by a purified light that charges them.
Activation
After you cleanse your crystals, you want to activate them by setting specific intentions with them. I like to do this by holding the crystal in my hands until I feel connected to it, then I begin to meditate on what I need most from the crystal with specifics. For example, with Lapis Lazuli I would say “I program this crystal to help me with creative discipline so that my creative ideas turn into completed creative projects.” Then I make sure to keep that crystal on me, especially when I am creating.
Charging
Crystals need to be charged daily once they’ve been activated. You can achieve this with a few hours in sunlight or moonlight (during the Full Moon). I charge my crystals daily on my altar. You can also meditate with them or use the visualization technique above.
My Bracelet Broke/Disappeared
If your bracelet breaks or disappears, do not fret! It happens. Crystals leave when they are done with you and vice versa. This is one of the many reasons why I love them: they make it impossible for you to be completely dependent on them. One time, I was using my snowflake obsidian to get really good sleep. Well, it worked a little too well and I was telling everybody how much I loved my snowflake obsidian and the next day I lost it in my shoe-box of an apartment in Brooklyn. I never found it, even after deep-cleaning when I moved!
If your bracelet breaks, more often than not it’s because it needs to be cleansed, activated, and charged. Don’t neglect your crystals! This may also make them leave you, they can help somebody else.
References
Hall, Judy. The Crystal Bible. Krause Publications, 2017.
Hall, Judy. The Encyclopedia of Crystals . Revised ed., Fair Winds Press, 2013.
Sedawie, Ross. “Sunstone Gemstone: Meaning, Properties, Uses & More.” Gem Rock Auctions, 3 Sept. 2021, www.gemrockauctions.com/learn/a-z-of-gemstones/sunstone.